- Proximity: In the same geographical space as the person you want to get to know.
- Frequency: How often you are in the same space.
- Duration: How long you are in the same space together.
- Intensity: The level of subjects you discuss.
When you first meet someone, lightly touching them on the arm often times builds a positive view of the person you met of yourself. I said arm, NOT the hand. Hands are intimate and will not be taken positive.